Mothering...a choice.

While doing some networking on Twitter I clicked on some followers sites to get a feel for who they were and I found myself reading some blog posts about  mothering choices. It was one of those experiences where different individual posts led me to one large 'Mother Blog'.

An article on the 'Mother Blog' was highlighting a few Mothers who chose to move away from their children and play a role other then primary caregiver. Each woman had a different reason for this choice. Abusive husband, terrible court system decisions, or realizing they never wanted to be a Mother in the first place.

As you can image the backlash from other Mothers was fierce. The comment section was primarily filled with anger and sadness with a few sprinkles of support.

As my day went on I reflected on my own choices. I have always wanted to be a Mother and as my own psychic experiences opened and my awareness grew I REALLY wanted to become a Mother. To be the gatekeeper to another Spirit wanting to experience physicality? I couldn't wait! Out of all the possible Mother's on the planet they wanted to come through Me!

As with all choices we think we know what to expect until we're in it. Ever get excited about a new job and after a few weeks it sucks?  Ever begin a new relationship that seems absolutely perfect and then after a year you want out?  Choice is what facilitates change in every situation.

Becoming a Mother to two girls, one with Down Syndrome, has changed who I am. A change only they could have triggered. We come into physicality to experience the consequences of our choices. If someone's choice triggers me it is my opportunity to look at my own choices and before I judge remember this is but one Lifetime on my Journey of Choices.

I created a book series for when my daughter's are older. The first book is called "Light".  It's a Sci-fi romance that highlights choices, mother's, daughter's, and relationships.

I want them to remember this is not our only Lifetime so lighten up and wield the power of choice. If we screw up...choose again...and again...and yet again.